Unfortunately, clubs are filled with guys who lavishly distribute attention to most women.
Besides, women like to be seen as being wanted in front of other women (subconsciously if not consciously).
When this is conveyed with confidence and good body language, no women can stop smiling when they hear this. You can’t tell this to a slob who’s got smelly untidy hair. You only learn from mistakes and feedback and once you get a hang of it, this stuff is effortless.
The golden rule is not to stare at them like a hungry wolf but rather like a connoisseur of fine jewelry when you talk to attractive women.
Once you open, ask more about how she feels about certain things rather than facts. Conversation techniques for creating attraction is a separate topic altogether, but for now you need to at-least learn to go and talk to someone without having the ‘mental filters’ on.
In fact, the guys who need no approval to feel confident are the ones who get attention. In fact, in this world where everyone wants to show off, people don’t even need privacy inside their loos.
Coming to the point of being nice: most women like nice guys but they think about them only when they need their codes fixed or groceries delivered. b) “Respect others privacy”This kinda sounds funny. I wouldn't be surprised if tomorrow people start posting pics on Instagram while taking a dump if someone tells them that it looks ‘cool’. Of course, this doesn't mean you encroach on their space before they want you there. From what I can gather from your question, I feel you need not worry about coming off as a creep but rather worry about the nervous image you project. You might be 5 feet tall, bald with a pot belly but trust me, women go wet when they see a confident, cocky son of a b**** . As long as its a healthy drive, it is perfectly fine to project that. Now coming back to your question, it is great that you accept the situation and you partly know what are the things you need to iron out. The game of meeting and attracting women is a game of probability and you need to increase your chances.